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    January Blues

    It is January. For me, that means it is cold, dark, and snowy. The world is falling apart. Life feels a bit as if I am trudging towards a finish line that keeps moving further away. Everything is expensive (health insurance in the US anyone?) and everyone is sick with colds and flus. So, what can you do to find a little joy in a blue January? I’ve compiled a list of things that could, theoretically, make your days more endurable. And, if you live in a part of the world where it is hot and sunny feel free to use these same suggestions to escape from that relentless humidity.…

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    A Poem for a Thursday #320

    Mary Karr is an American poet, essayist, and memoirist. She is particularly known for her best-selling memoir, The Liar’s Club, which was named one of the year’s best books. It explores her difficult childhood in East Texas. Karr has also published five volumes of poetry and has won many awards including the Pushcart Prize and the Whiting Award. Ninety percent of what's wrong with you could be cured with a hot bath,says God from the bowels of the subway.but we want magic, to winthe lottery we never bought a ticket for.(Tenderly, the monks chant, embracethe suffering.) The voice of God does not pander,offers no five-year plan, no long-termsolution, nary an…

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    A Poem for a Thursday #319

    Stuart Kestenbaum has written six collections of poetry. He has also written a book of essays on craft and community. He was the poet laureate of Maine from 2016 to 2021. Kestenbaum was the director of the Haystack Mountain School of Crafts in Deer Isle, Maine, for many years. Ted Kooser said of Kestenbaum’s writing that it contains “heartfelt responses to the privilege of having been given a life.” It doesn't announce itself or knockon the door of your heart. Suddenlyit's right behind you,looking with great pityat the back of your neckand your shoulders on whichit spends days placing a burdenand lifting it. Grief arrivesin its own sweet time, sweetbecause…

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    In Memoriam

    My grandmother died a week and a half ago. She was 100 years old. Over the last little while, her quality of life had diminished and it was time; we all knew that. But now there is a huge hole in my life. What am I supposed to do about that? I know I am fortunate to have had a living grandparent for so long. But now she is gone it is as if a connection to my childhood is gone too. As you grow up your relationship with other family members grows too but, somehow, a grandparent-grandchild relationship changes and yet stays the same. I was simultaneously little Jenny…

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    A Poem for a Thursday #318

    I had a bit of trouble picking a poem for today. That is not because I couldn’t find one I like, but because I can’t keep track of which ones I have featured. Three hundred and eighteen poems is a lot of poems. I finally settled on one by Barbara Crooker. I have featured her before but I did a search and I haven’t used this poem. It is such a lovely picture of a November day. Cold morning, November, taking a walk,when up ahead, suddenly, the treesunleave,and thousands of starlings lift off, animmenseriver of noise; they braid and unbraidthemselvesover my head, the gray silk skyembroideredwith black kisses, the whoosh…