You have been handed this beautiful baby.  What do you do now?  You feel like you know everything (five million baby books will do that to you) and nothing all at the same time.  That is true.  She is your baby.  You are the authority on her and don’t ever forget it.  If something doesn’t seem right, trust your instincts.  But at the same time, you don’t know much.  There are tons of people around you who know so much more than you.  Take advantage of it.  That mother-in-law who knows exactly how to swaddle a baby so the blanket doesn’t come unwrapped as soon as you set her down,…